I hope it all works out, my husband has his own fetish, one of which I couldn't agree with. I guess some guys like their exit area played with during somethings..... not sure to what I can say on here.
I agree with Sarah! It's your life! So enjoy it to its fullest;) Cause all of us are thinking about our lives and situations - and we really don't give you any advice, we give advices to ourselves! So, listen to your heart - all the answers are there, and don't think about that, just do what you want to do!