Cheating - to say or not to say?

[Helen]

I don't really like this topic, but I need your advice, Ladies!

Recently I met my best friend's husband in the club with the other girl. He didn't notice me, but I know that was him.
My friend told me that he had some extra work to do that night, so that was the reason to come home late.
I don't know what to do! That girl was not an "extra work" for sure...

Should I tell my friend about this? I don't want to hurt her, but if he is really a cheater, how can I keep the silence?

Please, speak your mind!
Thank you!

[Oksana]

If I were you, I wouldn't say anything.... It's not your business, and it's their private life... Maybe, I'm wrong... But I wouldn't.

[Ice]

Being with another girl doesnt mean that he is already cheating. You dont have enough evidence and Oksana is rigt. Even if he is the husband of your bestfriend, it is still their private life. If you smell something fishy, let your friend know by herself.

[Fiona]

I will give you my opinion based on what you've said and won't even imagine the whole picture... sounds like your friend trusts her husband and has no clue of what really is going on. You saw him but are not sure he was cheating? hmm, you have no evidence like Ice said. But he wouldn't have lied to his wife if it was just a night out with a "friend" right? I think it's too soon to say anything, obviously you feel bad for your friend but I guess you'll need to do some surveillance work to find out more clues! hehe... You know your friend more than I do and may guess what her reaction could be if you alarmed her with such a statement like "i saw ur man with another woman"... who knows maybe she will find out by herself before you feel the need to say something.

[Helen]

Thank you girls... I don't know what to do... It feels horrible... I remember one of my friends told me that she saw my bf with another girl....and I felt really bad, but then I found out that the girl was our friend and he didn't cheated me,,, Maybe here is the same situation? But why he didn't tell her about the party?

[GlamourGirl]

Dont feel bothered. Im sure your friend would know if his husband is doing some dirty business. Just dont worry too much.

[Abraham]

Helen you sent the pictures on your friend's home address if she ll know about that dirty business then avoid that pictures and if she ll not .... then may be she asked to her husband.

[Oksana]

I agree with you, this is their business. If one person cheats, another person can feel it... If she doesn't, it means that their relationship is not so perfect...

[Abraham]

OK!
I think you capture some pictures in you mobile and Deliver to your friend house with anonymous name.

I think you don,t waste time and your friend life.

May Be I am wrong.

Abee

[Helen]

I think that's too cruel...

[Fiona]

Helen, are you sure it was a cheat? If it's not maybe you can step out a little and maybe she'll then tell you her doubts... if she does then I think your suspicions are right.

[Abraham]

Helen you friend is married so just tell me that,s love marriage or arrange ?

If Arrange marry then she,s don,t know about that other dirty business!
If Love marry then she,s know about that husband activities, i am sure!

I am sent message again here because when i listen about that one husband cheat with her wife so i was shocked. Well helen don,t worry. You heart have good for your friend so GOD always help you because GOD is almighty . :)

[Ice]

Is there an arranged marriage?