I used to believe that there is a person that is right for you - your soul mate, but now I'm not so sure about it. Things can not be stable, you can change, your beloved can change, so you will need to find someone else... But maybe if the person is your soul mate, he will change in the same direction:)
I believe if it is true love, then you can stay together with one partner for your lifetime. I am now with my third husband, and he truly is the first man who puts me first, above himself. We agree that we have to give 100/100 not 50/50. This way, when one of you is ill, or in a crisis either mentally or physically, the other steps up to the plate and doesn't get upset when it is 100% him for however long. As far as faithful, as long as we give more than we take, even sexually, there should be no need to stray. With this attitude, it is a good balance. Sadly, this generation is a "me" generation, and also sadly, means the demise of many relationships
I agree that "me" problem is very important. I feel it on myself. The problem that we think too much, look for some reasons and DON'T feel. And we separate our life from other people's life, we look for the differences but not for the common things. We are too confused in our thoughts. But we have a way out - just to feel, just forget "me", and care about other person like you care about yourself - feel others pain, happiness, dreams - and you will feel love. Love is selfless, love is giving, love is being...
Nice words, girls, so inspirational!
I agree with you that when it's true love you just wish this person to be happy even if he's happy without you, and usually we think opposite - he must be happy with me, I need him, etc.
Yes, it's sad that we are "me" concentrated, but we can see that and this means that we can change it:) We have an ability to change and to learn how to love:) We need not to be afraid to open our hearts, because love is everywhere, we just need to be opened:)