Friends vs. Boyfriend...

[freaky pinklady]

Ladies...just wanna ask u....
Who is your first priority....your friends or your boyfriend?

[Debbie]

When you are not married it must be to your friends initially because you have known them longer. Because a boyfriend may be a short term situation and you could have burnt your bridges by the time you finf that out.

[inga]

My first priority would be my friends

[Pamela]

I think your friends... But you must also consider that both, your friends and boyfriend, must have clear that you need time for both parts, so you feel good with all of them. Besides, your friends must accept your boyfriend because you love him ad you've chosen him to be with you, but your friends are part of your life and that you need some time with them too.

[Debbie]

Must agree with Pamela especially now that you are engaged both sides should start making more commitment.

[Rose]

I have to say, my boyfriend comes first. But that is because we are in a commited relationship. We live together and have been together over 4 years.

The old saying "friends are forever and boyfriends come and go" is true to an extent.
When you are young, you date a tonnn of guys, but in the long run it is your "significatnt other"/boyfriend/fiance/husband who is around forever.

We, especially females, go through freinds like we do underwear.

I mean really think about it. how many "best friends" have you had in the past year or 2 and how close are you still with them?!

I think BEST FRIENDS last forever, but are truly more like family. So in that case, your SO should understand that. And your BEST FRIED/FAMIYL will understand you splitting time to spend with each of them as well.

[Beyonce Welch]

Being a widow my first priorities are my children ( 2 ) and grandchildren ( 4 ), I do wish that I had a boyfriend. OH how I wish !

[Oksana]

You will have a boyfriend if you believe in this, do not lose hope!:)

[blondebitch]

i've always chose boyfriends over friends...even guys i barely knew over friends...but over time i realized that was wrong and now i would defintely pick friends over boyfriends..you need to have a life outside your boyfriend, you need to have a life for if your boyfriend leaves you.

[sarah miller]

My friends are my first priority. When you get in a serious committed relationship that is different. Most women drop their friends when they get a boyfriend and guess what?? The guy disappears and then you are scrambling again for friends!!! I am pro women. Has anyone read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"? Do yourselves a favor and get the book. Everytime you get into a relationship read it again!!!!

[Svetlana]

My first priority is my friends, because friendship is a really wonderful feeling. And I think if your love with your boyfriend is real that won't spoil relationships with your friends because he will always understand you. And you should always contribute to friendship.

[Lisa]

You cannot choose who is the most important. And friends and boyfriend should play their roles. But I think that the best variant when your friend is your boyfriend friends too.

[Ice]

This is true. I guess if youre in a serious committed relationship, you need to prioritize the guy. But if he's only the guy you've met a few weeks ago, friends should never be set aside.