I think Rose got a point. It really depend on the extent of the relationship with the guy. Friends will always be there too and they should understand.
Permalink Reply by Eve on January 6, 2008 at 3:45pm
friends, but in reality a real friend should never put you in a situation whre you have to choose, unless it was something unbelievably crazy, you know?
My first priority is friends, and I absolutely agree with you, Eve, real friend as well as a boyfriend who really loves you will never put you in situation where you have to choose.
I also think that you cannot choose! You need these both parts of your life. And there is no priority - these are different issues. It'd be the same if you had to choose between eating& breathing. You just need both.
You should not choose just one - you should be free - if your world is all around one person - it will crash one day. So if you want your relationships(bf or friends) to work - do not restrict them...
It's a matter of balance. We need not choose if we can combine the two parties. Me and my boyfriend have common friends, so this is not a real issue with me.
I will always maintain my friendships. I have had so many failed relationships that I have learned they come and go but a good friend will always be there for you!